Baptist Funerals

Information on what to expect at a Baptist funeral service

Last updated: 22 August 2017

Baptist beliefs about death

The Baptist Church is a denomination of Christianity. Baptists believe eternal life is reached through faith in Jesus Christ.

However, Baptism is very widely varied and has many different groups, such as the Southern Baptist Convention, National Baptist Convention and Calvinistic Baptists to name but a few. Baptist congregations are usually self-regulated, meaning that there can be wide variations in beliefs among Baptists and Baptist churches. Each church is independent and may have different ways of doing things. This means that Baptist funerals may differ from each other.

Baptist funerals may also differ between cultures and communities. For example, African-American Baptist churches often have traditions and customs unique to them.

If you are attending a Baptist funeral and you are unsure about what to expect, you might want to ask a friend or family member of the person who has died if there are any special customs or gestures of respect. Try to avoid asking the next of kin of the person who has died, as they will likely be too preoccupied with organizing the funeral and coping with grief.

Planning a Baptist funeral

When a Baptist dies, their local pastor or minister is contacted to assist in the planning of the funeral service. They will often recommend a funeral home that works in accordance with the appropriate Baptist funeral traditions.

It is advised, however, that you compare the services of a number of funeral homes before you make your choice, as some may be better suited to your needs.

Baptist funeral traditions

A viewing service, where mourners go to view their loved one, is a common practice in the Baptist church. This often happens at the funeral home or the chapel, and usually takes place a day or two before the funeral. The viewing may be attended by just a few family members and close friends or all mourners wanting to pay their respects.

Organ and tissue donation, cremation and embalming are usually acceptable practices within the Baptist faith. The donation of organs and tissue are sometimes seen as the last charitable act.

The Baptist funeral service

Baptist funeral services often take place in a church or crematorium and are led by a Baptist minister. If the person who has died was a member of a particular Baptist church, it is common to have the service at their church, followed by a committal either at the local crematorium or gravesite.

The Baptist funeral order of service primarily focuses on the role of God in the life of the person who has passed away and their soul reuniting with God in the afterlife. The Baptist minister will give a funeral sermon and lead the service.

The casket is often placed at the front of the congregation and will usually be closed.

Baptist funeral customs differ between churches. The funeral service can be a joyous occasion that celebrates the loved one’s life and their afterlife with God. Alternatively, it can be a more somber ceremony.

Most congregations allow a close friend or family member to deliver a eulogy at the service, as long as they focus on the life of their loved one, God, their faith or religion. There is often opportunity given for family members to contribute to the service. In some Baptist churches the minister may lead the entire service, if that is what the family prefers.

Baptist funeral services normally feature Baptist funeral hymns and reading of scriptures, with the family often requesting those of personal significance. In some churches, traditional or even popular songs may feature.

After a Baptist funeral

After a Baptist funeral, mourners are usually invited to attend a short graveside ceremony of scripture reading and prayer. This is then followed by the lowering of the coffin into the grave.

If cremation ashes are going to be buried or scattered in a significant place, this ceremony may take place as they are buried or scattered.

A reception is often held after a Baptist funeral at the bereaved family’s home, a communal room in the church or at a restaurant or other private venue. These occasions often involve a meal, with some mourners contributing food.

What to wear to a Baptist funeral

At the viewing, funeral and the reception, it is customary to dress respectfully. In the Baptist church, this often means that men are dressed smartly, perhaps in a black suit and tie. Traditionally women are meant to wear black during these occasions, but modest, dark clothing is acceptable. Shorts, T-shirts and other clothing that bears skin are not considered appropriate.

On some occasions Baptists prefer mourners to wear bright colors in order to reflect the personality of the person who has died. If this is the case, you will usually be notified beforehand.

Baptist funeral etiquette

It is customary for mourners to send flowers to the bereaved family, the funeral home or to the church in preparation for a Baptist funeral. In some cases, the bereaved family prefers not to receive flowers and instead encourages mourners to donate to a charity of special significance.

Throughout the service, Baptist funeral hymns and prayers may feature. If you are not of the Baptist faith and do not wish to participate in these hymns and prayers, it is advised to be respectful of these traditions by sitting in silence.

For more information on religious funerals, visit our religious funerals page.